5 years after the worst day in my life
Day: Wednesday July 12, 2017





5 years ago today, about this hour, I found my wife wanted to exit my life. In the last 5 years, she has not had a serious conversation with me and it hurts deeply. However, my love for her has only grown, and I will continue to do what I can to restore that wonderful gift the Lord gave us both.

I am composing an email to send to all those in the “Naming Names” video in an effort to reconcile one or more relationships. It was my intent to send it today, but work issues have distracted me. But since it is the anniversary, I thought it would be good to bring you up to date.

I expressed my intent in the ‘Gal 2:14 “before them all”’ video (http://family.kozlowski.org/2017-06-24). Today’s video is attached and also at http://family.kozlowski.org/2017-07-12. For reference the “Naming Names” video is at http://family.kozlowski.org/2017-02-25.

You might find informative a recent discussion on “Preparing our kids to contend” (http://family.kozlowski.b:280/2017-06-29+2), “Holding Jobs” (http://family.kozlowski.b:280/2017-07-02+1), and “Isaac - My Encouragement” (http://family.kozlowski.b:280/2017-07-04+2) that I would like to share with all my sons.

My study of how contention defines love, and recently clarity on Gal 2:14 and 1Tim 5:20, plus the obvious love for my wife and kids, implores me to press on with renewed vigor and direction in another attempt to restore all or part of my family. To follow Christ, to love, there is no other option.

Please join me in this effort.

The Kozlowski Family ● Kozlowski









Reconcile 30

The Bible, Marriage, Reconciliation, and the Fraud of the Institutional Church

Sun, Dec 8, 2019

If someone is reaching out, I’m reaching back!!!

Mon, Oct 21, 2019

Privacy, Reconciliation, Cowardice, and Dorothy-Jane, I seriously love you!

Sun, Jul 21, 2019

The VPN Didn’t help – Mr. Cross we need to reconcile!

Mon, Jul 15, 2019

The Artistry of John Painter – A dialog on Reconciliation

Mon, Feb 25, 2019

For a software guy with no talent in art to have a friendship with a remarkably gifted artist was a joy. This is a celebration of the art of John Painter, a friend, and an encouragement to reconcile.

Perseverance in Reconciliation

Sat, Jan 12, 2019

Last year's Christmas gift for you is still available

Mon, Dec 24, 2018

Love, Cowardice, Boldness; A Waterboarding Offer

Sun, Dec 17, 2017

Please note that this is dead serious as described and an open offer.

What model does the religious leadership follow, past and present?

Sun, Nov 19, 2017

On October 31st of 2017, the very day marking the 500th anniversary of Martin Luther’s proclamation of the 95 Thesis, around 8 am I got a loud knock at my door from a detective from the Cleveland Police Department.

Naming Names

Sat, Feb 25, 2017

This is my effort to reconcile. I hope you will find an example of a man who has received the Lord’s mercy and is striving for mutual mercy with others.