Jim Cross ● Isaac
External Links
Voicemail_1253 ● Call attempt #1,253 - Day 1,815 - Postcard to Isaac - Job 2:6 “Behold, he is in your hand”
Voicemail Introduction – Why is this happening?

Monday, April 11, 2022

Intro: Paying the cost

Tuesday, April 12, 2022

Intro 2: “Keeping the promise”

Monday, April 18, 2022

Intro 3 ● Daniel Hale

Wednesday, April 20, 2022

Intro 4 ● Bush/Kerry

Monday, April 25, 2022

Intro 5 ● Collateral Murder

Tuesday, April 26, 2022

Intro 6: Cross, Caines, Bitterman

Wednesday, April 27, 2022

Intro 7: Marriage begins with sex

Friday, April 29, 2022

Intro 8: Health – Ed – Christ

Friday, May 6, 2022

Intro 9: Wife, adulteress, or dead

If you want an example of what it is for a flawed man to seek a reconciled family, it is set before you.

This is a growing part of a 10 year long effort in recovery.

Until my last breath, I will not give up!

This postcard effort started in late April of 2021. One card a day is sent out to family, extended family, and institutional church leadership. Some cards are passed into the hands of others directly and there are two in a glass jar at the top of Big Frog Mountain. After over 400 cards, the response has been silence.


The second batch of cards is has the additional link to “HeBeggedUs” to distinguish them. (http://Kozlowski.org/HeBeggedUs)


July 12, 2022 is the 15th anniversary of Collateral Murder (http://Kozlowski.org/CollateralMurder)

July 12, 2022 is the 10th anniversary of my wife abandoning our marriage.

As of July 12, 2022 my youngest son is 10. I have never celebrated a birthday with him. We have never talked face-to-face.


The links above are to a series of videos describing how this happened and my reconciliation effort. Perhaps it is a model for others who want to reconcile in their own family.


NO! I will not give up on the pursuit of reconciliation with my wife, my kids, my in-laws, and institutional church leadership. Consider reading the words my eldest daughter wrote and asked me to do the voiceover in “Keeping the Promise”. I’m still living them. When my Lord states that He will never leave me or forsake me, He then commands me to never leave or forsake my wife. In the grace of God, I am “Keeping the Promise!”

“Keeping the Promise” is a video written and produced by ErikaLeigh. She asked her dad to do the voice over. Her video is fantastic!

The words have hit home.




Genesis 42:21

Wednesday, August 11, 2021


The Kozlowski Family ●
Keeping the Promise ● A postcard is sent every day in unmitigated hope
Recent Voicemails
1Co 4:10 We are fools for Christ's sake, but you are wise in Christ. We are weak, but you are strong. You are held in honor, but we in disrepute. To the present hour we hunger and thirst, we are poorly dressed and buffeted and homeless, and we labor, working with our own hands. When reviled, we bless; when persecuted, we endure; when slandered, we entreat. We have become, and are still, like the scum of the world, the refuse of all things.

Tuesday, March 28, 2023

Call attempt #1,669 – Day 2,401 – Postcard to George – “I was there. I was fighting as hard as I could”

Monday, March 27, 2023

Call attempt #1,668 – Day 2,400 – Postcard to Jim Cross – The Lord’s grace with my computers

Saturday, March 25, 2023

Dorothy-Jane ● Last minute of voicemail

Friday, March 24, 2023

Call attempt #1,667 – Day 2,397 – Postcard to Jim Cross – Progress and plans in hope to bless my family

Thursday, March 23, 2023

Call attempt #1,666 – Day 2,396 – Postcard to Zadok – A bit of my history – and technology

Wednesday, March 22, 2023

Call attempt #1,665 – Day 2,395 – Postcard to ErikaLeigh – Happy Birthday – 2nd Chronicles 7

Tuesday, March 21, 2023

Call attempt #1,664 – Day 2,394 – Postcard to Walter – “Your dad is!” – So we can prevent similar victims in the future

Monday, March 20, 2023

Call attempt #1,663 – Day 2,393 – Postcard to Susanna – God of gods (Deuteronomy and Daniel) – What will life be life for our kids

Saturday, March 18, 2023

ErikaLeigh ● Happy Birthday ● You can reach out to me

Friday, March 17, 2023

Call attempt #1,662 – Day 2,390 – Postcard to George – Rebel – “Only dead fish go with the flow” – 1Co14 – Mat 11 – Mal 3

Thursday, March 16, 2023

Call attempt #1,661 – Day 2,389 – Postcard to Walter – Socks

Wednesday, March 15, 2023

Call attempt #1,660 – Day 2,388 – Postcard to Leo – Love the Muslim, Contend with Islam

Important Videos

Saturday, August 16, 2008

Keeping the Promise

Wednesday, May 6, 2009

A Mother's Prayer -- Happy Mother’s Day

Saturday, December 8, 2018

Marriage Defined and a Commitment Beyond

Tuesday, May 19, 2020

The Creation Story – Slightly Embellished by a Man in Love

Tuesday, December 8, 2020

Postcard Reconciliation

Saturday, March 20, 2021

Draft of “The Bible is true and the institutional church is a fraud”