Keeping the Promise ● A postcard is sent every day in unmitigated hope
Voicemail Introduction – Why is this happening?

Monday, April 11, 2022

Intro: Paying the cost

Tuesday, April 12, 2022

Intro 2: “Keeping the promise”

Monday, April 18, 2022

Intro 3 ● Daniel Hale

Wednesday, April 20, 2022

Intro 4 ● Bush/Kerry

Monday, April 25, 2022

Intro 5 ● Collateral Murder

Tuesday, April 26, 2022

Intro 6: Cross, Caines, Bitterman

Wednesday, April 27, 2022

Intro 7: Marriage begins with sex

Friday, April 29, 2022

Intro 8: Health – Ed – Christ

Friday, May 6, 2022

Intro 9: Wife, adulteress, or dead

If you want an example of what it is for a flawed man to seek a reconciled family, it is set before you.

This is a growing part of a 10 year long effort in recovery.

Until my last breath, I will not give up!

This postcard effort started in late April of 2021. One card a day is sent out to family, extended family, and institutional church leadership. Some cards are passed into the hands of others directly and there are two in a glass jar at the top of Big Frog Mountain. After over 400 cards, the response has been silence.


The second batch of cards is has the additional link to “HeBeggedUs” to distinguish them. (


July 12, 2022 is the 15th anniversary of Collateral Murder (

July 12, 2022 is the 10th anniversary of my wife abandoning our marriage.

As of July 12, 2022 my youngest son is 10. I have never celebrated a birthday with him. We have never talked face-to-face.


The links above are to a series of videos describing how this happened and my reconciliation effort. Perhaps it is a model for others who want to reconcile in their own family.


NO! I will not give up on the pursuit of reconciliation with my wife, my kids, my in-laws, and institutional church leadership. Consider reading the words my eldest daughter wrote and asked me to do the voiceover in “Keeping the Promise”. I’m still living them. When my Lord states that He will never leave me or forsake me, He then commands me to never leave or forsake my wife. In the grace of God, I am “Keeping the Promise!”

“Keeping the Promise” is a video written and produced by ErikaLeigh. She asked her dad to do the voice over. Her video is fantastic!

The words have hit home.




Genesis 42:21

Wednesday, August 11, 2021


The Kozlowski Family
Keeping the Promise ● A postcard is sent every day in unmitigated hope
Recent Voicemails
1Co 4:10 We are fools for Christ's sake, but you are wise in Christ. We are weak, but you are strong. You are held in honor, but we in disrepute. To the present hour we hunger and thirst, we are poorly dressed and buffeted and homeless, and we labor, working with our own hands. When reviled, we bless; when persecuted, we endure; when slandered, we entreat. We have become, and are still, like the scum of the world, the refuse of all things.

Monday, September 25, 2023

Call attempt #1,798 – Day 2,581 – Postcard to Walter – 74 Days – Mother Nature Parody – Slavery Reality

Saturday, September 23, 2023

Dorothy-Jane ● Mike got a card. Why not you or our kids?

Friday, September 22, 2023

Call attempt #1,797 – Day 2,578 – Postcard to Julia – 77 Days – Discernment

Thursday, September 21, 2023

Call attempt #1,796 – Day 2,577 – Postcard to George – 78 Days – Does Trauma Cause Homosexuality

Wednesday, September 20, 2023

Call attempt #1,795 – Day 2,576 – Postcard to Jim Cross – 79 Days – ShofarNexus responses

Tuesday, September 19, 2023

Call attempt #1,794 – Day 2,575 – Postcard to Mike Day – 80 Days – ShofarNexus test is live

Monday, September 18, 2023

Call attempt #1,793 – Day 2,574 – Postcard to George – 81 Days – Relationships – A reason to live

Saturday, September 16, 2023

Jim Cross ● My wife has thrown away over $100,000

Friday, September 15, 2023

Call attempt #1,792 – Day 2,571 – Postcard to Covenant – 84 Days – My Lady, you have already thrown away over $100,000

Thursday, September 14, 2023

Call attempt #1,791 – Day 2,570 – Postcard to Meadowview – 85 Days – “Triumph of the Will” or “Barmen Declaration”

Wednesday, September 13, 2023

Call attempt #1,790 – Day 2,569 – Postcard to Jim Cross – 86 Days – Ezekiel’s Watchman and the FBI

Tuesday, September 12, 2023

Call attempt #1,789 – Day 2,568 – Postcard to Julia – 87 Days – Show me your love on my terms or I will trust your love on your terms

Important Videos

Saturday, August 16, 2008

Keeping the Promise

Wednesday, May 6, 2009

A Mother's Prayer -- Happy Mother’s Day

Saturday, December 8, 2018

Marriage Defined and a Commitment Beyond

Tuesday, May 19, 2020

The Creation Story – Slightly Embellished by a Man in Love

Tuesday, December 8, 2020

Postcard Reconciliation

Saturday, March 20, 2021

Draft of “The Bible is true and the institutional church is a fraud”